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Charles Martin posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 31, 2021
As a former colleague of Jay’s working storms throughout the US, I’d like to express my sorrow at his unexpected passing and condolences to his friends and family. Cherish your many wonderful memories of Jay. Rest In Peace, brother.
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Andrea Melanson posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 30, 2021
Sincere thoughts are with you Debbie and family. We are saddened of your loss and hope days ahead will bring you fond and loving memories. God bless, Andrea and Paul
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Pauline and Shane DUNFIELD posted a condolence
Friday, March 26, 2021
Paul and Patty sorry to hear about Jay's passing . It is not easy to lose your brother you will be in my thoughts and prayers . If there is anything I can do let us know . Pauline and Shane .
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Pauline and shane Dunfield posted a condolence
Friday, March 26, 2021
Debbie we are sorry to hear of Jay's passing lots of memories . Pauline and Shane
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Frank Hartt posted a condolence
Thursday, March 25, 2021
So sorry and shocked to hear of Jays recent passing I had the great pleasure to work with and get to know Jay over the last several years chasin storms and helping people who were without power I’m so glad that our paths crossed in this world I will miss our chats my friend For his family I hope your memories and experiences with Jay will help u deal with his sudden passing as he continues on to his next life and journey
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Star Parlee posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Debbie and Family On behalf of Bruce (Tucker Hall) and myself, heartfelt condolences on the passing of Jay. All of those that knew Jay were very Blessed to have him in their lives. Truly an awesome guy. Praying that beautiful memories will help to get through this most difficult time. Hugs!! Star (Campbell)Parlee Bruce Campbell
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Carol Darling posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Dear Debbie, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. A very tough time, but just hang in. ❤️
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Dan and Terry Oram posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Dear Debbie, We were saddened to learn of Jay's passing. Our deepest condolences to you all.
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Reg &Jen Rankin posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
So sorry to hear of the sudden passing of a good friend. I worked with Jay for over 30 years. He was always willing to help out anyone. He will be missed.
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Jim Salmon posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 23, 2021
I had the pleasure of getting to know Jay while working storms. His work ethic, knowledge, quiet leadership and desire to get the "lights back on" were unparrelled. I was on so many jobs over the years where Jay and his crews would amaze our utility partners by doing whatever was necessary to get the job done. He was an incredibly strong and tough guy; I will never forget standing out in the cold at the end of the day in western NY a couple of years. I was freezing in my seven layers of winter clothing while Jay was wearing work boots, shorts and a T-shirt. I don't know how he did it! He is, and will be, greatly missed...
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Patricia Loughery posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 23, 2021
Dear Paul and Patty Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. God bless you all Love Aunt Pat and Uncle Merrill
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Jim&Kelly OBrien posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 23, 2021
Our hearts and prayers go out to Jay's family. Jay was an wonderful friend and we will miss him dearly.
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Connie Bartlett posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 23, 2021
To Paul and family. I am sad to hear of your brother's passing and thinking of you during this difficult time. Have peace when remembering all of happy times in the past.
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Todd Kelly posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 23, 2021
Deb, Sincere condolences on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers with you and the entire family. I spent many early mornings with Jay & Paul swimming in the lake, playing tag and of course watching Wayne go up and down the Warden Rd on his Honda 50 (sometimes he'd give others a turn..LOL) and many more evenings playing hide-n-seek whilst our parents enjoyed the summer evenings at the campfire at various places on the road. A real community growing up. Our recent, by chance meeting last summer at the camp - all grown up - and thought we would continue were we had left our childhood behind. Jay shall be missed - gone too soon. Todd & Denise Kelly
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Malcolm &Linda Nice posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Jays passing.He was such a kind hearted person and always willing to lend a hand.Thinking of all of you during this difficult time.
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Paul and Anne Gilbride posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
Paul, Our Thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. We are so sorry to hear of your brother’s passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Paul & Anne Gilbride
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ALLISON MCLAUGHLIN posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
condolences to the family. sorry to here about jay.
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Kim DeBortol posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
Paul & Patty I am so sorry to hear of your brothers passing. Please know my thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Kim DeBortoli
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Gary and Jan Seely posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
I'm so sorry Debbie and Catherine and Holly Jean and your whole family. This is such tragic news. May your fond memories carry you through this most difficult time. xoxo
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Mike Caissie posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
I worked with Jay for a couple years and had the good fortune to travel up and down the east coast with him a number of times. Jay was someone who I admired and respected as a great co-worker and friend. He was the kind of guy that could could fix anything and took great pride in his work. I learned a lot from him, and will always be grateful for the time that I was able to work alongside of him. My sincerest condolences to his family. You will be greatly missed, brother.
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Mark & Shelley Elderkin posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
So many laughs, wonderful memories, and great times together! Forever in our hearts! Xo
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Richard (Rick) Benson posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
So very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. My sincere condolences to his wife Debbie, and to his immediate and extended family. I'm sure he will be greatly missed and is in our thoughts.
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Kathy Wills posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
I hadn't seen Jay in many years, however, when he was married to Betty, my ex-husband and I were friends with them and we had a lot of fun times - when we were all MUCH younger. My thoughts are with all who loved and cared about him as you all find your way through this difficult time.
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Amanda Spencer( Crilley) posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
Debbie and family we are so sorry for the loss of Jay. He was a wonderful person. My deepest condolences to you all. Love Amanda
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Jeffrey Evans posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
I am so sorry to hear about the sudden passing of Jay. He will be missed by many. My deepest condolences to the family.
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Wanda and Jean Guy Dionne Shelleys parents posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
Debbie and family, so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
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Deborah Webber posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
There are no words to express our profound sadness over the loss of Jay. He was one of the most generous and kind people you could meet, who left us far too soon. He will be truly missed by all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mike, Debbie, Neil & Luke Webber
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Sherry LeBlanc posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
I met Jay through my best friend Tammy Breen Coombs while we were at St. Thomas University together. I wanted to say how sorry I am to his family and friends for their loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Sally Frees posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss Debbie and Family and the O'Connor Family. I was so looking forward to seeing you and Jay soon. The amount I knew him, he was a Gem. A true gentleman and so pleasant to talk to. RIP Jay. You will be greatly missed by your family and friends. Hugs to you Debbie. Love you xo Aunt Sally
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Tanya Dempsey posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
Dear Debbie and family Dave and I are so sorry to hear of your loss of Jay. Sending heartfelt condolences and big hugs at this difficult time. Tanya & David Dempsey
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Brad & Tammy Coombs posted a condolence
Sunday, March 21, 2021
We are so saddened to hear about Jay's passing . We had so many fun times together over the years. I'll be forever thankful to Jay for introducing me to Brad .Until we meet again , rest easy my friend .
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